May 16, 2014

Five people I met in heaven (on earth)

This blog entry is a scheduled post; written earlier, made to be published on Ivan's birthday which is today. Idea came and inspired through Mitch Albom's "Five people you meet in heaven."


Merce
I met her on our trekking adventure in Mount Ugo at Benguet on January. She's an office mate of my older cousin. At first impression, you won't notice why some people in our group gives her quite an attention until you make contact with her. She is deaf. She's having a hard time communicating with us and vice versa. Regardless, she's jolly all the time. She acted cheerfully and normal as if you don't have to look after her given the condition. Despite the fatigue, struggles and physical hardship we experienced in hiking, there was never a moment I saw her looking neither giving up nor irritated. We get along easy and well during the trip. I don't know where does she get the strength and courage, and I must say that I salute her.

Ejay
Ejay is a 7 year old cancer patient who has leukemia. I met him during my brother's birthday celebration held at ChildHaus - a haven for children battling cancer and other life-threatening illnesses. He's the first kid who approached me the time we reach their place. It was the first time  I saw him (for it was my 5th time visiting the place). Physically, he looks very thin. He's wearing a mask attached to his mouth. He's quiet but is showy of sweetly gestures. He stayed beside me the whole time we were there. Before departure, he gave me a hug and told me "Kuya Ivan, babalik ka ah." He cries while saying it to me. What a tear-jerker. God be with Him.

Ms. JD
Ms. JD is a CWTS professor in UP Manila. She was introduced to me by an environmentalist friend sometime this February while we're biking at the Diliman Oval (Ma'am JD lives within the vicinity). We went at her residence, roam around her garden and see her collection of plants, fruits, crops and bee house. The ambiance was a breath of fresh air. She loves anything clean and green. Upon entering her house, I was suprised of what I saw - a collection of names of people, written in a very small piece of paper, pinned in each stick, attached in a pineapple-looking object located at the table in the living room. She's a birthday collector. It's the first time I've encountered a person which has an unusual collection! She got my name and my birthdate and then attached a stick bearing my name in a paper. It was such an amusing moment.

Mang Jun
Kuya Jun is a cab driver. I rode his taxi sometime in March when I need to go to Banawe, Q.C. to meet my cousins. I have this mannerism of establishing a quick connection with people I've just met especially if having a conversation can be achieved. It's my way of making my presence felt and for a precise term in tagalog: 'palagayang loob' with a significant other given that-very-moment-you-are-with-him-or-her-situation. He has three children and a niece in his accountability. We talked about how he manages to budget his 'kakarampot na kinikita' on a day-to-day basis. Despite everyday struggles in life, I was very happy to hear from him this line: "Kahit maliit ang kita basta marangal, 'yung wala kang taong inaagrabiyado." Naligayahan ako sa narinig ko. Sadyang may mga taong mabubuti ang loob. I gave him plus 100 pesos upon paying my taxi rate when I've reached my destination.

Nonoy
Addison is my cousin. He's more commonly known as 'Nonoy', that's how we call him in the family. I included him here for these two aspects in life he embedded upon me through his recent action: Brave-heart; and Risk-taker. I admire him for having the guts - the guts to leave the comfort zone and taking the road less traveled. To give a little background, he's a manager in an international food company - earning the respect of corporate world, living the life of an ideal eligible-bachelor in the making. And then this year, he just resigned. Why? What for? That is to enter the world of photography. To chase his passion for art in form of taking pictures. The world he truly loves. In simple terms, he's just pursuing happiness. And guess what? He's nailing it.


Love is not complicated. People are. Cliche, but universal truth.

March 23, 2014

Simplify

In a radio interview, a basketball superstar was asked about his knack for making the game-winning shot in crucial situations. The reporter asked how he was able to be so calm in such pressure-packed moments. His answer was that he tried to simplify the situation. "You only have to made one shot," the player replied. 

One shot. That is the essence of simplifying a difficult situation. Focus only on what is in front of you right now. Don't worry about the expectations of your coach or teammates. Simplify.

Recognizing that the challenges of life can be both overwhelming and suffocating, Jesus urged us to take matters in hand by simplifying. He said, "Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble" (Matt 6:34). This was His wise conclusion to His teaching on the debilitating power of worry. Worry doesn't accomplish anything positive; it just adds to the sense that we are drowning in the troubles we are facing. We must take things as they come ─ one day at a time ─ and trust Him for the wisdom to respond properly.

If you feel overwhelmed by life, do what you can today and then entrust the rest to Him. As Jesus said, "Each day hes enough trouble of its own" (NIV). ─ Bill Crowder

Don't worry for your future needs,
It will only bring you sorrow;
But give them to the Lord instead 
He'll take care of your tomorrow. ─ Sper

We lose the joy of living in the present when we worry about the future.

(taken from Our Daily bread booklet. This' one of my favorite devotional reading passage. Blessed Sunday!)